Hello friends,
Writing after really long time.
Left to itself, things go from bad to worse.This rule applies to my writing skills as well.
so please excuse me if u feel bad after reading this..
During this long gap from my previous post, I had been to many places, met many people,undergone many changes myself..I am a person who learns from people,so
learnt many things of which i would like to share some.
I observe that most people in our country including me(i observe myself too) irrespective of their age,profession,carry out 2 more profession, in fact much more sincerely than their actual profession.
First one is a Doctor's profession.Most of us,no matter who we are,when confronted with a medical illness,tend to Self Medicate until it reaches a state where in we inevitably have to meet a qualified actual doctor.
This is very serious n dangerous for our own lives as examples prove it.At the end of the day who suffers most?
Is it the doctor(for missing his fees as u dint visit him?)?
I m sure you would agree with me that its only WE who suffer the most...
More dangerous than the first one,is the second profession which is of a JUDGE.
I am sure you will be wondering "where am I giving judgement?"
just think for few more moments I am sure you will be able to realize it.We pass judgement against almost everything we come across may it be food,people surrounding us,professors,
our fellow mates,our colleague,our boss,our friends n worst of all even parents..
Whats most dangerous is most of these judgements will be based on our perception rather than truth.
well wont believe me??
catch yourself when you say something similar to these.
perception: "Hey that professor doesn't know anything."
truth: (How do u know? u been in his brain? may be he doesn't consider u so imp that he should show his intelligence)
perception: "My Mom dad doesn't know to live life man..They don't enjoy even a bit"
truth: your view of enjoyment is much much immature than their view.& this applies to your view on life :)
perception : "Hey she is so beautiful"
truth : Beauty lies in the eyes of beholder..some feel aish is awesome,some feel she s awful
etc.. On careful observation,most of our judgement is based on perception rather than truth..not always our judgement is right,
This also means not always our judgement is wrong..i simply want to convey the message of a famous saying in my mother tongue.
"ಪ್ರತ್ಯಕ್ಷವಾಗಿ ಕಂಡರೂ ಪ್ರಮಾಣಿಸಿ ನೋಡು " which means truth can be different from what your eyes is showing you so better testify it than regret it.
I feel judging someone,something is terrible as world seems beautiful the way it is.why can't we accept something or someone the way it is or they are? Pointing mistakes helps correcting only when it's kept to a certain limit beyond which it cannot be corrected & the person correcting feels pervert happiness in pointing the mistakes.importance shifts from person to mistakes
of that person which in most of the cases irreversible.
Oh i really m sorry to have forgot to mention that these judgement are only for others..We never judge ourselves.
When it comes to us ,All rules gets lenient,all barriers gets broken.
Who suffers in the process? of course the person who is getting judged but one who suffers maximum is ourselves,especially after knowing the truth.
only way to correct ourselves is to start accepting things as they are to maximum extent as there are many things in this world which cannot be changed & which should not be changed.reason is simple that many things in this world are simply perfect in its own imperfections & beautiful(Eg:nature).
other way of avoiding this is to have trust in people n in GOD who created this universe so beautifully.
having said all that i also accept that not everyone has the above mentioned qualities otherwise it would be indicating i
too am following the second profession :)
Would like to end this by saying my feeling since long time
There is not enough time for hatred in this life...avoid misunderstanding by trusting your loved ones...
Trust is not belief that comes when everything goes well...
Trust is the belief when everything else seems to suggest to prove it wrong...
Lets stop Self Medicating n Judging Others to make this world a better place to live for ourselves & for others.
